It’s a natural human instinct to think that you’re wittier, sharper, and simply better than most. There are some people who walk into every room with the distinct impression that they’re the smartest person present. They talk more, they disagree with everything, and often seem like they’re about to burst with their own sense of self-importance. In fact, their behavior actually exposes the truth. They’re not intelligent at all; they cling to certain beliefs that make them feel clever.
After talking to people about what they’ve noticed in friends, coworkers, and even family members, we found the same patterns popping up again and again. Here are 13 myths people who think they’re smart often believe.
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“Talking more makes me sound smarter”
They believe that the more they talk, the more they can showcase all their knowledge. What they fail to understand is that people who are truly intelligent know when to keep their mouths shut. Empty verbosity is a quick giveaway that a person has nothing to say.
“Big words = big brain”
Throwing in words that nobody understands can sometimes come across as a sneaky trick to sound smart. But when explanations are confusing and pretentious, people can figure it out right away. Really intelligent people use simple words to explain complicated concepts that others struggle with.
“I’m never wrong”
To them, admitting a mistake feels like failure. Instead of owning up when they’re wrong, they dig in their heels and double down on bad ideas. Ironically, this stubbornness just proves they’re not as wise as they think.
“Correcting people shows how smart I am”
They’ll jump all over little mistakes that people make, whether it’s a mispronounced word or a small factual error. To them, it’s a way to prove that they’re on top of things. However, what others see is a person who needs to prove themselves constantly. No one wants to be around that kind of person.
“If I win arguments, I must be right”
For some people, the only thing that matters is winning. They equate being louder, more aggressive, or just refusing to back down with actually being correct. The thing is, if you push someone into silence, it doesn’t make them wrong.
“I don’t need to learn from others”
These people think that asking questions or listening to someone else is a sign of weakness. Truly clever people know they don’t have all the answers and are eager to keep learning. Pretenders, on the other hand, shut out new ideas and end up stuck in their own limited knowledge.
“My degree or job title proves my intelligence”
To them, a fancy degree or a job at a high-powered company automatically makes them smart. The problem is that these things don’t always correlate to being clever. Plenty of people make unwise decisions despite having an impressive job or title.
“Throwing in statistics makes me sound credible”
They may try to quote statistics or some other number to seem more authoritative on a subject. The trouble is that they often either exaggerate or just make up these “facts” completely. Without a source or some kind of proof for a stat, it’s obvious it’s just being used to obscure the facts.
“I can fake expertise in anything”
All it takes is a few articles or a quick video for them to think they’re the expert on the subject. This can work for a while, until someone who really is an expert in the field comes along.
“Disagreeing with everyone shows how unique I am”
Some people will disagree with others just for the sake of it. They do this because they think it makes them appear stronger and more insightful than the next person. The problem is that real intelligence means being able to see different perspectives.
“Humiliating others makes me look smarter”
They think putting someone else down is a good way to make themselves look great. What it actually does is shine a spotlight on their own insecurities and immaturity. A truly intelligent person has no need to put others down to get ahead.
“Confidence equals intelligence”
These people believe that if they act confident enough, people will think they’re intelligent. Confidence and intelligence are great, but they’re two separate things. It’s possible to be both loud and confident while also being completely wrong.
“I already know enough”
This is probably the worst myth of them all. These people believe that they’ve already gained all the knowledge they need. It’s a mindset that’s blinding to them. It keeps them from learning or challenging their own ideas.
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