We recently stumbled upon a jaw-dropping query on social media that’s been the talk of the town. A user asked, “What should I do about my husband who has cheated on me for a staggering 32 years?”
Brace yourselves, as we unveil a sensational array of responses from individuals with opinions as diverse as the story itself. From forgiveness to calls for retribution, this is a saga you won’t want to miss.
Featured Image Credit: photographee.eu /Depositphotos.com.
A user advises OP to consider staying and making the most of their life while acknowledging the challenges of finding a faithful partner. They suggest, “OP, stay since you have been knowing and dealing with it all these years but do what you can to enjoy YOUR life and take care of your loved ones. I just conclude most men are dogs and so it is really hard to find one that is true, kind, and compassionate to others.”
Another user argues that if OP allowed the cheating to continue for 32 years, it’s no longer considered cheating. They believe OP was “happy sharing him for 32 years.”
Yet another user emphasizes leaving, emphasizing that there’s no reason to cheat on someone. They strongly advise, “Leave. Man or woman, there’s no reason to cheat on someone.”
Another user suggests either putting up with it or taking steps towards separation and divorce. They advise, “Keep putting up with it, OR take steps towards separation and divorce. 32 years is a strong pattern, he’s not going to change.”
Another user emphasizes the need for OP to focus on their health and get tested for diseases. They prioritize health concerns and advise, “It’s not what you should do about your husband, but what you should do about YOU! Hopefully, you have seen a doctor regularly, and especially have been checked for diseases he could have passed along to you, some that can affect your health negatively forever.”
Another user bluntly advises OP to seek a different relationship after 32 years of cheating. They express that the husband deserves “STD’S. Be careful, if you must sleep with that worthless [POS] you should probably put a suit on his overworked soldier or you might sprout cauliflower on your privates or unexpected warts. Either way that’s never a good thing.”
Another user recommends that OP takes legal action by calling a lawyer and ending the marriage. They advise, “If it’s true he cheated for 32 years [then why are you now looking for answers] —-the answer now is the same as it should have been 32 years ago, call a lawyer and get rid of this cancer.”
Another user wants OP to just make a decision, saying, “32 years is a strong pattern, he’s not going to change. It’s time to decide if you are going to change. Only you can make that decision. Remember, no decision is still a decision.”
Another user questions why OP is seeking answers after 32 years and suggests considering divorce. They advise, “Well, what were you doing for 32 years, of course he continued to cheat, because you never said anything.”
Another user advises self-reflection and self-improvement, implying that OP should have taken action sooner. They suggest, “You shouldn’t do anything about him. You should really slap yourself upside your head, hard, several times, for staying around that long.”
A concerned person wonders if there are children involved.
“I am sorry you are going through this. Whether you just found out, thought you two were working it out, or have known but just found your strength…collect evidence…solid proof. If you are still living together..know where all assets are and all credit cards and bank accounts. If the affair or affairs have really been going on that long.. are there children? Do you have children with him?”
It’s Utter Chaos Because I Decided to Un-Invite My Cousin’s Kid From My Wedding. Quite Possibly, She Is Next!
In the heart of the fall season, as the air turns crisp and love permeates the atmosphere, preparations for a wedding are in full swing. The story unfolds with the original poster (OP), a groom aged 27, and his fiancée, 25, embracing the idea of inclusivity.
I Kidnapped My Own Child To Prove a Point to My Husband. Was I Wrong?
In today’s fast-paced world, juggling work, family, and our own dreams can be really tricky. A recent post online has got everyone talking about how far someone should go to protect their child and what it means to be a good parent.
I Walked Out of My Sister-In-Law’s Bachelorette Party Because It Turned Out To Be a Scam
In a world where celebrations have taken new forms and trends, from destination weddings to extravagant bachelor parties, the concept of a bachelorette party has evolved. It’s become a moment for camaraderie, laughter, and creating cherished memories.
However, what if a seemingly innocent bachelorette party veers off course, becoming a battleground for personal values and the fight against exploitative practices?
My Harmless Joke Led to a Friendship Fallout – What Went Wrong?
In the age of memes and snarky one-liners, humor has become a defining aspect of human interaction. It finds its place even in the most unlikely situations, providing respite and camaraderie. But what happens when humor crosses boundaries that we didn’t even know existed?
A Creepy Lady Asked Me for a Ride in the Middle of Nowhere. I Just Couldn’t Do It.
In the rugged landscapes of Australia, where nature’s beauty intertwines with untamed challenges, encounters between strangers can take unexpected turns. A recent incident involving a young hiker, an enigmatic middle-aged woman, and an impending storm ignited a thought-provoking online discussion about personal safety, empathy, and the complex nuances of human behavior.