Behind every pickup line and dinner date conversation, here are some of the real practical questions that women actually have for men.
Are men really that insecure about their height?
Height is possibly the single most insecure body part for men. Society makes height synonymous with power, protection, and attraction.
From annoying callouts on dating apps to towering managers in the workplace, average and short men constantly feel reminders of their stature.
Tall men aren’t immune either and often feel self-conscious about standing too stiff or awkward rather than straight and tall.
Why do guys spend minutes staring into space without saying anything?
When a man is staring into space, his brain is likely on idle or contemplating one thought that isn’t time-sensitive.
Men use these blank-outs to zone out after a stressful day or mentally re-group from an exhausting day filled with decision making. He’s typically not scheming against you or someone else; his mind is literally on pause.
Do men even care about interior design and home decor?
Yes and no. Men do not care about what kind of pattern your curtains are or if your pillows match.
However, most men care about the vibe of a living space. A dude wants his space to feel cozy, clutter-free, and inviting. However, he might still lack the design vocabulary to select complementary pieces.
When men take pride in their space, they want order and peace for themselves.
How do guys deal with always having to make the first move?
Making the first move sets you up for potential embarrassing, public rejection every time. This fact looms over most guys like a dark cloud.
Even the most confident guys feel a rush of nerves before striking up that first conversation, asking for that first number, or broaching that first kiss.
Men fear seeming creepy or unwanted.
Why do men keep old, worn out t-shirts for years?
The reason that old, worn-out shirt is in your drawer isn’t a disregard for style, but its sheer cozy factor. Literally soft.
Those holes your elbows stick through have gone through at least 200 wash cycles- giving it that vintage feel.
For many men, putting on a faded, well-loved shirt is an immediate ticket to feeling perfectly at home, free from any self-doubt.
Why do guys get so nervous talking to attractive women even in a work environment?
Just because you’re meeting at her office or on a work call doesn’t mean you’re not going to be intimidated by her.
When you talk to an attractive woman, men often think so much about how they’re speaking, sitting, and articulating their words that they fear they’re going to trip over their tongues.
Guys are often naturally anxious around girls which is why they may come across as stiff, extremely quiet, or extra chatty.
When they try on clothes at a store, what goes through their heads?
Trying clothes on in dressing rooms can be an annoying process for guys.
Sizes are all over the place between stores. You could be a medium at one store and walk into the next store and find the medium is cutting you off at the waist. It’s enough to make any guy feel a bit self-conscious.
For the average guy, the ideal scenario is finding pants that fit without needing a tailor.
Do guys secretly enjoy being pampered? (facials, massages, etc.)
Yes. Most guys love massages and pampering in general. Once they get over their hesitation to try it out, most guys learn that they really enjoy physically relaxing and taking care of themselves.
Plus, getting a massage, hot towel shave, or facial gives guys a unique opportunity to truly unwind and let go of all their physical tension. Though entering a spa might initially make him uneasy, he’ll end up finding it quite enjoyable.
Why do guys struggle to make new friends as adults?
Children automatically meet friends at school or on sports teams. As adults, men have almost no places where they will socialize with others without effort. Guys are also task-oriented when it comes to making friends.
Most guys make friends by doing things with other people, not sitting and talking. So when guys enter the workforce and start families, it’s difficult to branch out and meet new friends.
Many men experience their friend group slowly declining as they progress through their 30s.
Do men notice when another man is super well dressed?
Yes, men do pick up on it when another dude’s got a killer, well-matched ensemble going on, though they might not voice it.
Whether it’s a sleek suit combo, a nice pair of kicks, or a cool laid back jacket combo, men recognize when another guy has style and pulls it off with confidence.
They just observe those cues and know what may or may not look good on them next time they’re at the mall.
Are men concerned about being a good husband and father way before they become one?
In the background quietly trying not to show it, men have spent years contemplating if they will ever be good enough to financially and emotionally provide for a family.
They watch their parents, friends and co-workers’ marriages and relationships, internally dissecting what not to do when it’s their turn.
Having anxiety about wanting to be that stable, loving provider is something most men think about well before walking down the aisle.
What happens when life gets financially stressful?
Men generally tie their value to their ability to provide and pay bills. When the stability of their job is threatened or bills become too much to handle, the stress that ensues can make a man clam up in private stress or anger easily.
He also typically feels like he needs to figure it out on his own before burdening others.
Are guys subconsciously competing with their friends?
Healthy competition between male friends is extremely common.
Guys will congratulate their friends wholeheartedly on a major promotion or buying a house. But internally, he’ll quickly compare how he measures up.
Every time he sees one of his friends doing well, he has to ask himself if he’s working hard enough or falling behind.
Why do men ignore physical pain or injury?
Most men are raised to walk it off when they feel some sort of physical pain.
Making a doctor’s appointment or admitting that you aren’t feeling well can feel like you’re showing weakness or letting life’s responsibilities pile up.
So a lot of times, men will stubbornly wait until the injury or illness can no longer be ignored before taking care of it.
Why do men get so deeply attached to sports teams?
Having a sports team to root for allows men to be emotional in a uniform way. They can cheer, yell, and obsess about their team without being looked at oddly. Instantly you are part of a community with strangers who all share the same goal.
Whether they win or lose, being a fan guarantees a regular, predictable interruption to your everyday life.
How embarrassed do guys feel shopping for girl products?
Taking a trip down the feminine hygiene or makeup aisle to purchase something for his girlfriend can feel so absurd to a guy. He’s not embarrassed about the actual product. He’s panicked about purchasing the wrong kind, size, or brand when there are 50 of that item on the shelf.
He’ll probably text his friends pictures of the box just to be damn sure he’s choosing the right one.
How do men handle heartbreak/endings of relationships?
Women tend to deal with emotional wounds as soon as they occur. They hole up with their girlfriends and analyze every detail.
Men, on the other hand, tend to bury their emotions for as long as possible. A man may plug his ears and listen to music non-stop, focus on work or exercise like a maniac, etc. in order to occupy his brain and avoid feeling during those first few weeks or even months.
It usually doesn’t hit him until later when it becomes quiet and he notices everything he used to do with that person is no longer there.
Sources: Please see here for a complete listing of all sources that were consulted in the preparation of this article.
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