Before kids, hobbies often fit easily into evenings and weekends. But when life gets busy and priorities change, most people have to put some of their beloved hobbies on the back burner. We spoke with a few parents who shared their stories about the things they used to do all the time before having kids. So here’s a list of 12 hobbies that often end up collecting dust once kids arrive in life.
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Weekend road trips to random small towns
Throwing an overnight bag in the car and heading down the road to explore a quirky diner and a local antique store used to feel like an adventure. But when you have kids, a “quick trip” means packing three times as much stuff as you think you need to be out for four days.
Thursday night pub trivia
Those late-night trivia games with friends were a weekly tradition. But once bedtime routines and early school mornings kicked in, staying out past 10 p.m. stopped feeling worth it.
Weekend-long board game marathons
They had the patience to play Risk or Monopoly marathon-style for a whole weekend. Games that take more than 30 minutes are basically a lost cause now.
Opening night movie premieres
Seeing the big blockbuster the moment it dropped was exciting. Most parents nowadays will watch it months later on Netflix, in 10-minute intervals with constant interruptions.
Community theater
Acting was a source of real joy. Learning lines, attending rehearsals, and having time on stage made them happy. Now, they just don’t have the commitment to rehearse for 2 weeks and then perform on weekends unless strollers have suddenly become eligible for the cast.
Exotic aquariums or terrariums
Maintaining an elaborate setup for rare fish or reptiles takes a lot of care and attention. These days, that time and energy go to keeping the kids alive and fed.
Historical reenactments
Before being parents, some people used to spend their weekends going to Renaissance fairs, Civil War reenactments, or historical fairs, dressed up in period costume. Now, just getting the kids to school or work in their regular clothes without a meltdown is its own battle.
Volunteering for animal rescues
Transporting foster animals or working at the shelter used to be a regular part of the weekly routine. Now, between after school, work, and bedtime, there’s barely time to walk the family dog.
Model train or LEGO setups
Building things at home is no longer a slow, relaxing activity. With little kids running around, any model train setups or LEGO creations will be destroyed in seconds, sometimes on purpose.
Reading entire novels in one go
They could once lose themselves in a book for hours. Now, reading is often done in tiny bursts, usually before falling asleep mid-page.
Flea market treasure hunts
Back then, flea markets were about the thrill of the find. They spent hours wandering, drinking coffee, and bartering for vintage treasures. Now, they’re about keeping your kid from knocking over someone’s display.
Photography outings
They once spent hours chasing the perfect shot. Now, most photos are of kids, often taken in a hurry before someone spills juice or runs out of frame.
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