Your reputation is important. You know people see you, they remember you. Reputation takes time to develop. Sadly, it can be wrecked in a split second. You might be in a state of habit or character where people are beginning to slowly and subconsciously see you as different than you think. Maybe it’s something as simple as not arriving on time or keeping your promises. All of this will pile up and damage your image.
These are traits we don’t always identify ourselves with, but being aware of them is the first step to change. So let’s get into some common things that might shape our impression, and how we can practice being better versions of ourselves.
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Dishonesty
When you don’t tell the truth, it ruins people’s impression of you. Someone who finds out that you lied can start to doubt everything you say. Trust is like breakable glass, and you can’t replace it once it’s gone. Human beings like the truth, even if it is difficult to hear. To be transparent and authentic is a good way to create lasting connections.
Negativity
Being absorbed in the negative aspects of things deflates everyone. By whining endlessly, people become bored with you and will not want to be around you. Positive attitude is infectious and negative attitude – oppressive. There needs to be a space where you can talk through your frustrations but also make sure that you do not take the good with it. Find the silver lining, it will affect how other people perceive you.
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Arrogance
Proclaiming to be superior to everyone else can turn people off. If you dismiss people’s thoughts or ideas, it can make them feel slighted. We’re all different and acknowledging that gives you the feeling of community. Instead of judging others, be their support. There is nothing more valuable than a little humility.
Inconsistency
If you’re inconsistent or make promises too often, others may feel a bit lost in what they should expect of you. Continuity ensures that other people feel safe around you. Be trustworthy because that gives you credibility and it also makes it clear that you are serious about what you’re promising. Unpredictability, conversely, will result in confusion and disappointment. Be reliable and people will respect you for that.
Gossiping
You can break relationships if you talk behind someone’s back. When you circulate rumours, you endanger the rumoured person and render yourself incredulous. Everyone wants to feel comfortable telling you what they think and gossip is not good for this. Gossip is not the solution – focus on positive dialogue. You’ll gain credibility if you are perceived as a person of respect.
Lack of Accountability
Failure to admit your fault can cast doubt on your character. ‘If you justify yourself or blame others, it’s childish and reckless. It is nice when one can learn that they were wrong. Adequate responsibility is an act of strength and a sign of credibility. “Mistakes happen, it’s what you do with them that counts.
Poor Communication
The more you are unclear and unapproachable, the more miscommunication there’s likely to be. Communication is a key ingredient in good relationships, and being open allows others to talk to you. If others don’t know what you are talking about, they will be upset or excluded. Try listening carefully and saying what you mean in clear terms. It will help you build better relationships and avoid unnecessary ambiguity.
Selfishness
Being selfish about your own interests can make friends and colleagues angry. You need to strike a balance between taking care of yourself and caring about others. If you show them you care about them as well, you will make them more secure. People appreciate being nice and generous, and they are more likely to support you back. Don’t make the mistake of being selfish and you’ll have a better reputation.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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