One of the best parts about living by yourself is that you have the freedom to do what you want, when you want. But there are also some quiet and hidden risks that you need to watch out for when living alone that most people tend to overlook.
So here are fifteen of the less obvious, but real, mistakes you can make when living alone.
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Leaving Curtains Wide Open All the Time
It feels nice to open up the house to the light, at least during the day. But leaving your curtains open all the time lets strangers see your daily routine. People can monitor your routine by observing your morning wake-up time and your departure from home. Keep in mind that privacy in the home starts with what you choose to display.
Doing Groceries or Chores at the Same Time Every Week
Doing things on a schedule makes life more convenient. But if you do the same things at the same time each week, it gets routine. A stranger can sit and watch and learn all your habits, not just when you come and go. They may also want to know when your house is empty. Changing the time of day and days of the week just a little keeps you less predictable.
Avoiding Small Home Repairs Until They Become Big Ones
That loose doorknob or squeaky hinge seems like no big deal. But when you are living alone, small problems become bigger security risks quickly. A broken lock is not just annoying; it can leave you vulnerable. A loose wire is not just a nuisance; it can start a fire.
Letting Strangers into Your Building Just to Be Polite
It can be uncomfortable to decline a stranger who follows you into the building. They may look harmless or friendly, but you do not know who they are or what they want. When you are living alone, being cautious helps not just you but your entire building.
Posting Real-Time Updates
Posting that you are in for the night or having dinner by yourself might seem harmless. But in real time, you are sharing more than you know. You are telling people that you are home and by yourself. Save these kinds of posts for after the fact. You do not want what you share to make you more vulnerable.
Leaving Packages Sitting Outside for Too Long
When a package sits on the front porch for hours, this sends a message. It says you are not at home, and it also says you are inattentive. Neither of these is a great thing to broadcast to the neighborhood. Every burglar worth his salt scans the area for these types of things. Aim to pick things up promptly or instruct delivery services to leave them with a neighbor or elsewhere.
Ignoring Odd Noises or Changes in Your Surroundings
If you live by yourself, it can be simple to dismiss odd noises or atmosphere as something that is not there. However, if you feel strange about it, trust your gut. Scope the area out with a peephole or video monitor if you are unsure. Remember, you are your own first line of defense.
Relying Too Much on Your Phone for Emergencies
If your phone is habitually on low battery or under the pillow, it will be of little use in an emergency. When things get serious, you cannot afford to go looking for it. Keep your phone charged and accessible, and also have other means of contacting help without delay.
Using Candles Without a Backup Plan
When the lights go out, candles can be the perfect immediate solution. However, what happens if one gets knocked over or is left burning too long? A candle can start a fire very fast, putting your home in danger. Instead, opt for battery-operated lights and candles. You can still be cozy but without the risk.
Assuming Everyone Who Knocks Is Legit
If someone knocks on your door, it is not always the case that they are who they claim to be. Even if someone pretends to be with a utility company, this is no reason to let them in. Ask to see ID and verify. Living alone means you have no backup. You are on your own, and your front door is the line. Follow your instincts and take your time.
Never Telling Anyone When You Are Going off the Grid
Going on a phone-free vacation or a solo camping trip can be liberating. However, someone still needs to know your location at all times. If you were to go missing, no one will go looking for you if they are not aware you are missing. Send a text to a friend or family member that you will be out of the house and back by a specific time. Silence is not always golden.
Letting the Mailbox Overflow for Days
Mail piling up in your mailbox can create the impression that no one is home. It can also make it seem as though the property is not being regularly monitored. Even if you are only extremely busy, it will appear as a pattern to outsiders. Try to pick up your mail every day, even if it is only for a minute or two. If you are going to be away for an extended period, ask a friend or neighbor to hold down the fort for you.
Keeping Spare Keys in Predictable Spots
Keys hidden under flowerpots, welcome mats, and doormats are no longer such a great idea. They are places that a potential intruder is guaranteed to look first. If you must hide a key, consider giving a spare to a trusted neighbor or friend. You can also hide it in a lockbox.
Using the Same Password for Everything at Home
It can be tempting to make one password for your Wi-Fi, smart lock, and security camera system. However, this leaves you open to one wrong guess and a stranger having total access to your home. Your error can cost you a lot in the end. Create different passwords for each of your systems and keep them in a safe place.
Not Having a Plan If You Get Sick or Injured
Becoming severely ill or injured alone at home is a frightening thought. If you do not have a way for people to check on you, the problem may get worse before someone notices. Set up a system to check in with a neighbor or friend daily. Post emergency contact numbers in a location that is easy to reach. Being alone in your space does not mean you have to be disconnected from others.
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