Generally, introverts often think carefully before they buy something. But even the most thoughtful shoppers have a few purchases they wish they could take back. We talked to a group of self confessed introverts about the things they’ve bought that didn’t actually fit their personality or lifestyle and compiled a list. So here are 13 purchases that introverts confessed they regret.
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Networking course subscriptions
Some introverts signed up for networking courses and professional mixer classes, thinking to boost their careers. However, it left many feeling used and tired. They never got around to attending these networking classes. Many have realized that making one-on-one, personal connections is a much more effective strategy.
Subscription boxes for social hobbies
Many introverts ended up with unused boxes of cocktail kits, party games, and crafting clubs. Participating in these hobbies felt more like homework than fun. Now, they prefer hobbies that can be done solo, at their own pace.
Large pet or aquarium setups
Getting a giant fish tank or high-energy dog was an exciting thought. The truth? These pets usually demand constant attention, cleaning, and noise. Introverts always gravitate toward smaller and low-maintenance pets.
Overpriced headphones and cameras for “virtual hangouts”
One introvert actually bought pricey headphones and a camera. Their thought was to “feel more included” in big online group chats during the lockdown. Turns out, they still dreaded virtual hangouts with big groups. Instead, they now use those headphones mostly for podcasts and listening to music to relax.
Bar carts and fancy glassware
Setting up a bar cart felt like a passage into adulthood. But for introverts that don’t often have people over, the bar cart mostly just sat there looking pretty. Introverts can easily relax with a nice cup of tea or a glass of wine from a favorite mug.
Group travel packages
Discounted group travel packages might look like the deal of the year. They really are not worth it for introverts who have to force themselves to be around loud tourists on every sightseeing trip. They prefer solo travel or traveling with close friends.
Expensive party clothes
Many confessed they impulsively bought fancy clothes, thinking they’d start going out more. The clothes ended up staying in the closet with tags still on. They eventually realized that less-flashy, practical clothes are much better for their actual life.
Gym memberships they never use
The idea of working out at a full gym was overwhelming to some introverts. While they went a couple of times, they eventually quit going. Some now work out at home or go for walks in nature instead.
Huge dining room tables
Buying large tables was a mistake some introverts made, hoping to fill the space by hosting dinners. But very few dinner parties were held at their tables, and it sat mostly unused, often with junk piled on it. A two-seater would’ve been more than enough.
Giant sectional sofas
The idea of filling a living room with friends sounded nice in theory. But for introverts who rarely entertain, the couch just takes up space. A smaller, cozier sofa feels more inviting and realistic.
Expensive club or event memberships
Country clubs, professional networking groups, and other memberships promise to connect people with like-minded people. But the reality? They end up dreading going, and don’t go at all. Most eventually cancel and feel a huge sense of relief.
VIP concert tickets
Introverts enjoyed seeing their favorite band in concert. But the sold-out venue made it impossible to relax or even hear the music. Streaming a live performance online suddenly became a much more appealing option.
Open-plan homes
Some introverts once thought that an open floor plan with an airy feel would suit them. But when they moved in, they only realized they missed having walls and doors and corners to hide in. Introverts always gravitate toward private hideaways over airy layouts.
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