Men love women no matter what they wear, but there are certain looks that most men would admit get their heart fluttering.
His shirt look
Something about a woman in an obviously oversized shirt just feels comforting.
Men love the idea of a “boyfriend shirt” because it represents this comfortable, homely feeling that most expensive dresses just can’t seem to replicate.
Either way, psychologically speaking, I think it has to do with the closeness shared between people in the same living space, as well as the juxtaposition of a tiny silhouette wearing a larger garment.
It’s flattering, familiar, and far less forced than your average button-up blouse.
Loose strands
Sure, a sleek ponytail may be cute on some girls. But let’s be honest here: a lot of guys seem to love it when you sweep your hair up, but leave a few little hairs loose around your face.
Those little flyaways not only give you a softer, down-to-earth look, but they also highlight that your hairstyle is natural, and you didn’t spend an hour morning cursing with hot curling irons.
Evolutionary psychology fans would argue that effortless hair indicates health and an easygoing personality. Whatever the reason, those little flaws just make your overall look that much better.
Dainty, layered necklaces
I’m not talking about one thick gold chain hanging around your neck.
I love wearing several thin chains at once. It isn’t overpowering but it does seem to subtly highlight my neck area.
And this little bit of extra detail, noticeable only upon closer inspection, is what really gets guys interested. It’s feminine and playful, but never over the top.
Cap days
A baseball cap projects an easygoing, “up for whatever” kind of image.
Guys love that femmes can rock this athletic, laid-back look while still looking ultra-feminine. The baseball cap, whether it’s a throwback or not, is pretty much a built-in, flattering frame for the face.
It somehow brings attention to your eyes and leaves room for a sweet smile.
Vintage jeans
I don’t mean skin-tight skinny jeans (those are great too), but high-waisted, bootcut/jogger style jeans that look like they’ve been worn and well-loved for years.
Guys love a girl in well-worn, vintage-style jeans because it shows she knows how to rock an effortlessly put-together look that also allows them to move around.
Even if it isn’t skin-tight or revealing, these jeans still look amazing on most body types because of the silhouette it creates.
Workwear vibe
I know it sounds weird, but pieces such as Carhartt jackets, combat boots, or cargo pants can be incredibly popular, as they often allude to someone who is capable and has lived life adventurously.
Men dig this look because it says you’re up for anything, like a spontaneous mud fight or a hike.
This aesthetic is unique from all of the flowy floral dresses, giving off instant “visual strength.” Plus, utilitarian clothing typically has a cool, modern feel to it.
Clark Kent
Although many girls may grab their contacts before heading out, many guys hope you reach for your glasses.
Glasses (specifically smart, thicker frames or ones you’d see in academia) accent your eyes and give the illusion of your face being more intelligent and intriguing. Not to mention, there is some sort of “Clark Kent” effect when someone removes their glasses.
It’s an accessory that complements you, not hides your features.
Athleisure vibe
That streamlined, monochrome look feels undeniably sharp, and guys dig it because it projects a healthy vibe and a certain allure. It means you look active and energetic.
Not only are you giving off gym-to-table vibes, but your body looks more contemporary, and you look effortless walking to Starbucks or the park.
With one or similar-toned colors, the focus is on you and not your outfit, and trust me, that’s what you want.
Leather edge
Guys love this for pretty much the same reason girls do.
They are drawn to this because it introduces an air of intrigue and tempers softer styles with a touch of rebel flair.
Throw on a leather jacket, and you automatically take on some of the boyish confidence it has exuded since the 1950s.
Leather jackets on women still communicate an undeniable aura of confidence and strength even today.
Cozy knit
When it gets chilly outside, there’s probably nothing a man loves more than seeing you slip on a big, cozy sweater.
The fabric of the wool, mixed with how it practically shrinks the body inside, gives people this adorable little vibe of warmth and vulnerability.
Throw on a big sweater, and you’ll automatically look ready to snuggle up and have a deep conversation.
We are psychologically wired to trust and find comfort in soft textures, so by throwing on a big sweater, you’ll literally look more cozy and huggable.
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