With relationships, it seems like everyone has an opinion on what works best—but have you ever wondered what guys are actually thinking? They’re not always great at sharing. So, we’ve rounded up twelve pieces of relationship advice that a lot of men agree on. These tips are straight from the guys themselves and will make the relationship better for both of you.
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Express Your Needs Clearly
Guys aren’t mind readers, so if you need something from him, just go ahead and say it. Being direct cuts down on misunderstandings between you and keeps things a lot more straightforward. Most guys seriously appreciate knowing exactly what you need instead of having to guess.
Appreciate His Sense of Humor
A good laugh goes a long way in every relationship. And guys especially love it when you get their humor! It makes everyday stuff a lot more fun and this means that even the most difficult of situations become a lot easier to deal with. Go ahead and laugh at his jokes—even if they’re not that funny.
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Take Interest in His Interests
You may not be a fan of his favorite sports team or video game but showing a bit of interest can mean a lot to him. Ask questions or maybe watch a game with him. Simply listening when he talks about his hobbies can be enough to show that you care about his happiness, not just yours. Lots of guys say this is enough to make them feel special.
Offer Solutions, Not Just Criticism
When things aren’t going right, you shouldn’t just point out what’s wrong and criticize his actions. Instead, work together to come up with solutions. Most guys appreciate this because it demonstrates that you’re not there to give feedback. Rather, you’re actively helping to make things better.
Be Patient with Him
Patience can be tough, especially if you feel like he’s not getting something right away or he’s making mistakes. But showing patience, according to some guys, means showing kindness & understanding —
which we could also do with having a little more of. They’ll appreciate you more than you might realize.
Surprise Him Sometimes
Just because he’s a guy doesn’t mean he doesn’t like surprises! The right kind of unexpected gifts can make any relationship a lot happier. Of course, it doesn’t have to be anything grand—cooking his favorite meal or just planning a day out can all be wonderful surprises. You could even buy tickets to a movie he wants to see to add some excitement to your relationship.
Understand His Stressors
Knowing what stresses him out and understanding how to help him cope can make you an invaluable partner. Sometimes he might just need to vent, while other times, he might need a bit more support to get through a rough patch. Whatever he wants, many guys say they like having someone by their side to work through the hard moments.
Appreciate His Quirks
It’s a fact—everyone has their quirks and a guy’s odd habits are probably why you fell in love with him! Instead of getting annoyed by his odd little habits, you should see them as endearing and appreciate them. After all, lots of guys say that doing so makes them feel loved for who they truly are, not just who you want them to be.
Admit When You’re Wrong
Just as you’re grateful that he’s admitting his mistakes, he’ll respect you when you can do the same. Owning up to your mistakes demonstrates that you’re willing to be mature & fair in the relationship. Forgiveness is a two-way street—so be prepared to walk in both directions if you want your relationship to succeed.
Ask His Opinion
It doesn’t matter if you’re redecorating the living room or planning a vacation—ask for his input. Many guys like having their voices heard because it shows you respect their views. When you listen to him, you consider him a partner in decisions (both big & small) and it’s also a good way to make plans together that you’ll both enjoy.
Let Him Help You
Don’t forget to let him help you out. Even if it’s with something small like fixing a leaky faucet or opening a jar, allowing a guy to help him feel needed & important. Of course, that doesn’t mean you have to be helpless—instead, you want to let him feel like he’s contributing to your life in a meaningful way.
Be His Safe Space
You should be someone he can turn to in times of need. When he feels safe sharing his thoughts and emotions with you, it strengthens your relationship. Together, you’ll build a stronger level of intimacy & trust that’ll help you weather any storm. Never underestimate the power of being someone’s support.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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